Smelly Spouse

Question My husband has a problem with routinely taking a shower. Sometimes three days will go by before he does! I’ve tried a lot of things to get him to […]

ERI: Conflict Engagement

Conflict engagement is the practice of addressing disagreements rather than avoiding them. Many people, often for very good reasons, prefer to avoid conflict or disagreements rather than engaging with the […]

ERI: Conflict Management

Conflict management is the ability to keep disagreements from getting out of control. In life, we’re pretty much guaranteed to experience “conflict,” because people have different opinions on things and […]

Power Struggles

Question My wife and I are constantly getting in power struggles. How can we get beyond this? Answer Can you name the devil’s greatest ploy to cause trouble in relationships? […]

Growing Through Conflict

What is the first memory that comes to mind when you hear the word conflict? How do you feel after experiencing a major conflict with someone you love? If you […]

Disagreeing Spouses

Question My wife and I have problems agreeing on many things. We seem to hold on strongly to our parent’s view. What can we do to start agreeing? For example, even […]

Different Interests

Question My wife and I have nothing in common. We’ve been married nine years, and I find myself wondering what it would be like if I were married to a […]

Unhelpful Husband

Question I’m a stay-at-home mother of three children (all under the age of 7). My husband works hard at his job, and I appreciate that; but he doesn’t help out […]