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7 Keys to Building Strong Families: Conclusion
I hope that reading my articles has reminded you that while great marriages and families are possible, they don't just happen. Healthy relationships take time, effort, energy and intentional focus.
7 Keys to Building Strong Families: Introduction
The quality of family life influences every other part of our life. Surveys tell us that the greatest source of happiness in life is the family. The same surveys tell us that the greatest source of frustration and disappointment in people's lives is dealing with family problems.
7 Keys to Building Strong Families: Key #1 The Power of Modeling
Key #1 says that, “What your kids see you do as they grow up is what you’ll likely see them do when they’ve grown up." Trust me when I tell you that the most influential education your children will ever get is what they see and hear in your home.
7 Keys to Building Strong Families: Key #2 Giving the Gift of Time
This second key to building strong families is the simplest but also one of the most difficult. Most children spell love with a T, an I, an M and an E. That's right. TIME is how most children spell love. Key #2 says: “Healthy parents don’t find time, they make time.”
7 Keys to Building Strong Families: Key #3 Power of Nourishing Love
Learn how to say “I Love You!” in more than one way. In Ephesians 5 the apostle Paul tells us that two key ways to love in relationship is to cherish and nourish. The challenge is to learn how to go beyond cherishing the one you love and discover how to nourish them.
7 Keys to Building Strong Families: Key #4 Cultivating an Encouraging Environment
An encouraging environment is one in which we spend more time building and encouraging our loved ones than we do scolding and correcting them. It’s one in which we honor them by speaking respectfully to them.
7 Keys to Building Strong Families: Key #5 The Gift of Healthy Anger
Whenever I ask for a word association to anger the responses are invariably 99% negative. Why is it that of all the emotions anger has such a bad reputation? Is all anger bad? Can this unwelcome and potentially destructive emotion be considered a gift rather than a time-bomb?
7 Keys to Building Strong Families: Key #6 Nurturing Quality Communication
Apart from nurturing a vital and growing relationship with Jesus Christ the most critical issue is the 6th key to building strong families: In a healthy home people have learned how to listen, ask questions and nurture quality communication.
7 Keys to Building Strong Families: Key #7a Conflict: Pathway to Intimacy
Most of us see conflict as an unwelcome interruption in our lives rather than a normal and necessary part of being in relationships. Unresolved conflict is one of the main problems that plague marriages and families.
7 Keys to Building Strong Families: Key #7b Conflict; Pathway to Intimacy
Most couples don't "do" conflict very well. None of us enjoy it. Most of us will do whatever we can to avoid it. Once we change how we see conflict it becomes easier for us to exchange our defensive and combative posture for a creative one.
A Dad’s Ultimate Parenting Toolbox: Part One
The bottom line is that God created men and women very differently with equally beneficial roles. The good news is men can develop others tools beyond providing for physical needs to be more successful at home.
A Dad’s Ultimate Parenting Toolbox: Part Two
Success in our relationships is not guaranteed if we take the exact skill set of a physical provider and apply it to emotional providing. Emotional providing requires unique skills like listening, connection, equality, harmony and tenderness.
A Different Kind Of Christmas Present
The different kind of Christmas present I’m talking about doesn’t cost any money, but it does come with a price. The price is choosing to give up other things to be available to your family. One hour a day, sixty minutes, can dramatically change your loved ones’ lives forever. What a special gift!
A New Year & New Opportunities
You have a fresh opportunity to make a decision that in this new year you are going to learn, to grow, to make a few changes in one of the most important areas of your life . . . your relationships.
A Small Act of Kindness
Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. People come into our lives for a reason, a season, or lifetime.
Accurate self-assessment is having an honest and unbiased perception of your own strengths and weaknesses. This means being able to step back and evaluate who you are and what you’ve done.
An "African Violet" Life
We all experience down times, times in which our glass feels half empty rather than half full. Certainly God has given us a full range of emotions, both positive and negative. One of the greatest things we can do to deal with our down times is to grow the African Violet part of our lives.
Anger is one of the most powerful and controlling of all emotions. It’s experienced much more frequently than people would like to admit. According to Dr. Henrie Weisinger, most people experience the emotion of anger between 8 and 10 times a day.
At the End, It's Relationships that Matter
If your loved-ones are like most people, it won’t be what you did FOR them. It will be what you did WITH them. It won’t be how much money you spent on them, it will be the memories of the gifts of your time that you gave to them.
At the End, It's Relationships That Matter Most
If your loved-ones are like most people, it won't be what you did FOR them. It will be what you did WITH them. It won't be how much money you spent on them, it will be the memories of the gifts of your time that you gave to them.